Why you shouldn't give a damn.

I meet annoying people a lot of times in my life who constantly do unfair things repeatedly. And honestly, it is getting increasingly draining dealing with them. But really, sometimes they do things to push you to an end, and you just go "You know what? You can go die for all I care, I've had enough." - No, I don't mean literally, I'm not that mean.

I like to rationalise my actions. I try to be logical no matter how illogical I may sound to others. And so, reasons for why I shouldn't give a damn about these people anymore.

1. The cliche "they aren't worth it". I don't care how ridiculous this sounds, but people who constantly push you to the extremes really aren't worth your time, effort, and friendship. As bad as I may seem for being the one calling it quits, I argue that I am just reacting to other party's behavior. Not giving a damn about the person anymore is really, a favor to that person, because really, when I don't give a damn anymore, it's when the person has repeatedly behaved unfairly towards me. And so, not giving a damn is better than dissing the person.
2. They are just being very selfish. Honestly, when people behave in ways that repeatedly annoy you, it's because they are only thinking from their POV. I know people are selfish; everyone is selfish to a certain extent. But really, there must be a limit. The world doesn't just revolve around you and your small little world. Just because you want the attention doesn't give you the right to behave in ways that cause others unhappiness or inconvenience.
3. They self-victimise/self-pity. I always have a theory about people who engage in self-pity. Giving in to them equates to indirectly telling them that they were really a victim of a certain situation and that they could do it again because it will work. Guess what? I don't fall for that. I give this analogy. If you fall and scrape your knee, you get up on your own feet again and do something about it. If you just sit there and cry, then may your wound infest and you die from it. Because really, unless you are in one way or another handicapped, you have no reason to rely on others for your well-being. Well, unless you pay them. Then yes, you have the right to rely on them to nurse you and babysit you.
4. They do not self-reflect. I can't hang around people who do not self-reflect for a very simple reason. They behave as if the world only revolves around them and they are always right no matter what they do.It is absolutely irritating because these people are too narcissistic for me. If you love yourself so much, I guess you can spend more time with yourself then.
5. They don't give a damn about you too. This is probably the most direct way of seeing that you don't have to give a damn about them too.

And so, no, I am not going to give a damn about you. So there. 

Dreams.

Do you have dreams?

Will you press on to your dreams?
I badly want to open a cafe in the future, one that sells sweet desserts, good (and sometimes unique flavored) coffee, good food.

I have so many guinea pigs for my sweets now. ^^
I tried so many new recipes; sometimes repeated recipes because Melvin likes it (every once a month, sorta a way to celebrate the day that Melvin and I got together).

Nutter's Madness

Panna Cotta

Tiramisu

I lost the drive to find more photos. hahha. 

My thoughts are everywhere. I want this, I want that. I actually think sometimes, I want to learn how to walk before I crawl. I will probably fall very hard if I continue with that mentality. 

Melvin and I were discussing that I should start an online business first before going out in the open with a cafe and everything. Just talking about makes me so pumped up that I don't want to study. 

Oops. 

Back to Earth for the moment, maybe? :P